Processing .....please wait.. 
The article has been forwarded.... 
Men are more emotional than women
By
siliconindia news bureau
| |
Bangalore: Tying the knot makes men feel happy to the worth of 18,000 pounds while women experience the joy worth only half the amount.
Paul Frijters, Queensland University of Technology, estimated the value of happiness in terms of cash for the major events in life like marriage, divorce and illness. Each of the event shows different results for men and women.
While divorce leave men feeling a loss of 61,500 pounds, for women it was a just a loss of 5,000 pounds.
The birth of a child created a low cash amount, about 18,000 pounds for a man and less than 5,000 pounds for a woman.
According to the findings, the death of a partner or a child creates the feeling of a loss of 73,000 pounds to a woman and more than 350,000 pounds to a man.
Losing a loved one has a much bigger effect than gaining a loved one. There's an asymmetry between life and death. This shouldn't surprise us. Human beings seem to notice losses more than gains.
Paul Frijters, Queensland University of Technology, estimated the value of happiness in terms of cash for the major events in life like marriage, divorce and illness. Each of the event shows different results for men and women.
While divorce leave men feeling a loss of 61,500 pounds, for women it was a just a loss of 5,000 pounds.
The birth of a child created a low cash amount, about 18,000 pounds for a man and less than 5,000 pounds for a woman.
According to the findings, the death of a partner or a child creates the feeling of a loss of 73,000 pounds to a woman and more than 350,000 pounds to a man.
Losing a loved one has a much bigger effect than gaining a loved one. There's an asymmetry between life and death. This shouldn't surprise us. Human beings seem to notice losses more than gains.
Reader's comments(150)
1: There is no doubt women always surching new
persons and spend her time with them up to
her happy. Women is happy with money. Women
never care of men feelings.
Posted by: KG Reddy - 04 Dec, 2009
2:No, this is not true, Every women is not like
this some women like your mother is not like
this do you belive.
sandesh replied to: KG Reddy
post - 10 Dec, 2009
post - 10 Dec, 2009
3: u have never known ur mother or ur mother is
expert enough to hide dual personality
--- replied to: sandesh
post - 10 Dec, 2009
post - 10 Dec, 2009
4: I think gender is not a matter for having
such a quality i.e., emotion. It's dependent
on mental condition of a human being and some
chemistry. I also think that emotional weight
must not compared to money. Yah, money is
important for survive but not at all such
that it can be compared for the cost of
emotional power.
Posted by: smritirekha - 03 Dec, 2009
5: Unbiased and Selfless Love exists only when
the happiness of the other person is more
important than your own.
I realized this a bit too late. The Girl I loved the most left me because i was being too possessive. I have learnt my lesson which i cannot forget in this life time. I want her to be happy where ever she is , with whomever she is.
Keep Smiling always , Like you used to :)
I realized this a bit too late. The Girl I loved the most left me because i was being too possessive. I have learnt my lesson which i cannot forget in this life time. I want her to be happy where ever she is , with whomever she is.
Keep Smiling always , Like you used to :)
Posted by: Ajay - 02 Dec, 2009
6: absolutely, i will go further to say based on
my experience that men can easily be fooled
by women.
Posted by: Amit - 28 Nov, 2009
7:Man wants to emotionaly depend on women as
they feel there life is incomplete without
women.
Gurpreet replied to: Amit
post - 29 Nov, 2009
post - 29 Nov, 2009
8: Women love money, else they wont go begind
guys who are rich.
Men Loves woman, who loves money and indirectly they gain money and looses a lot of money later
If a man get a girl who doent love money, then that man is the richer in the worl, since he doesnt looses money jan
Men Loves woman, who loves money and indirectly they gain money and looses a lot of money later
If a man get a girl who doent love money, then that man is the richer in the worl, since he doesnt looses money jan
Posted by: jan - 28 Nov, 2009
9: Bt though i would lik to add tht with tym
,situation,5maturity ,family dependency a man
grows to be emotional but earlier he is not
purely lik tht kind.
Posted by: Apurva - 28 Nov, 2009
10: guys and emotional.oh really.ya i hav heard
tht before too.but being straightforward i
havnt met a men yet who is emotionaly
viable.importantly in case of girls.he is
emotional for his family bt nt until he feels
it to be lik tht.nd wen he finds a girl
emotinaly depending on him he is jst the most
practical guy on earth for no reason.so
basically ya a man can b emotinal or not to
.it depends purely on his needs and choice!
Posted by: Apurva - 28 Nov, 2009
11: I m not completely agree with this result.It
may happen in some regions but it must vary
from cultures to cultures,according to there
meeting and greeting etiquette.for example,a
country like india where one women cant be
like the above assumptions as they were very
tied up with there family\\\'s and has very
emotional towards her famely.
Posted by: Deepak Verma - 28 Nov, 2009
12: Men love women, women love money. so a man
marries a woman he loves, woman marries a
man, who has money. For any other need they
can have alternate/intermediate solutions. :P
Posted by: peeyush - 27 Nov, 2009
13: The above research is based on Economics.
The medical reason of Hormonal activity
explained by Subhankar is also correct. But
do not agree in terms of age barrier.
Posted by: Altius - 25 Nov, 2009
14: Although the scenario depends upon culture
& economy but for a prosperous well
developed society where consumerism is no
more a luxury, but a necessary, this may
reflect truth! It depends upon economic
conditions as well as educational backgrounds
too. But when compared between a male and
female of same economic class and social
stature women become less and less emotional
up to an age barrier of 35-40 years. But
after that, means when in the late thirty or
early forties, women became more & more
emotional specially just before their
menopause due to hormonal
activities...........
Posted by: subhankar sarpyl - 24 Nov, 2009
15: not really...this seems to be working only
with the man who loves his gal so much...i
mean when the love percentage is more in mans
side which is very rare...still there are men
who like to have relationship with so many
gals though they have a most lovable heart
waiting for them to love.men is emotional
only when he gets that feel..but women will
become emotional when the men turned
emotional...
Posted by: sashi - 24 Nov, 2009
16: Men are emotional. Women dont care. men think
more than women when it comes to emotional
issues
Posted by: V V S Prasad - 24 Nov, 2009
19: Men are emotional. we agree 100%. But women
also more emotional, who leads the life with
only the spouse LOVE.
Posted by: Divya Sai Manasa - 23 Nov, 2009
20:seke,men emotional are like cold
anger&the women like rac
ket anger.
ket anger.
Sundar. replied to: Divya Sai Manasa
post - 24 Nov, 2009
post - 24 Nov, 2009
21: Do not agree with ravichandran. To
understand more pls.visit website
http://www.aifw.info/
Posted by: Altius - 23 Nov, 2009
22: my opinion women is sacrifices every thing
for men ,and she will take and feel the
responsibility about men,so hear there is no
matter to tell men are more emotional than
women, hear both or equal for example: sruthi
matha, laya pitha
Posted by: ravichandran - 23 Nov, 2009
23:then u don't know anything about women :)
vinod replied to: ravichandran
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
25: I don't know much about women, but men's
brain works heavily on techinical skills and
women's on management. so they are more
powerful in managing multiple things. That
may be one of the reason for the outcome of
this study. but everyone has their own
emotional level and we can't always compare
it with same gender or oppposite. it depends
on the inner strength u have.
That what i feel.
That what i feel.
Posted by: Venkat - 23 Nov, 2009
26:this article is not about managerial or
technical skills or managerial skills but it
is about emotional power of male and female
and I agree that man are more emotional than
woman.
Tejash
Entertainment and Enjoyment
Tejash
Entertainment and Enjoyment
tejash replied to: Venkat
post - 24 Nov, 2009
post - 24 Nov, 2009
27: I am completely agreed. woman hav always
carry a backup for everything.
Posted by: Ashok Deshwal - 23 Nov, 2009
28: yes, right I think. Its true and 95%.
Posted by: Archna Tiwari - 23 Nov, 2009
29:lets not quantify human losses and gains to
money.. it doesn't really require research of
these sorts to convince anyone abt the
emotional discriminant so to speak.. men are
more emotional observed in everyday walk just
putting numbers to it doesnt make too much of
a difference
anirban replied to: Archna Tiwari
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
31: Hey i liked the last comment. Quite true. I
have met a few of the many girls and i agree
the article is true. Yet i keep the hunt for
this perfect girl for whom money is less
important then principles. I see so many
girls commenting. Just count in your brain
how many guys you know. so that you really
have the right to judge using the remark of
male chauvinism.
Posted by: suhail - 23 Nov, 2009
32:initially, as per studies, a women's heart
size is lesser than that of men which
eventually makes a man culprit of
overemotions...doesnt mean that women don hav
a heart towards anything, however men dont
use their minds while being wit
women....nonethless, emotional level of a man
or woman depends upon theirs ability to use
their minds and hearts in appropriate
required situations
Gokul replied to: suhail
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
33: I agree because most of the men are dont
express the feelings as the way women does
for example even for the small reasons or a
small problem girls dont control and they
start off crying where as a man dont do like
that even if he is facing a bigger problems
he doesnt give up to others that easily but
he will be suffering inside much more than a
girl who cant hide the feelings.........
Posted by: Mamathadev - 22 Nov, 2009
35: Comparing human emotions with money...Oh..
come on..such a negative study..If i was the
sheriff...I would banged his back bone..n put
him behind bars...! Useless goon! We must
never encourage these guys..! Only because of
these idiots...relations n emotions are
misconceptually understood by the upcoming
generation...to hell with these 3rd rate
lofrs..
Posted by: Sudarsan - 22 Nov, 2009
36:i guess you are not sudaran , you are
sudarsanii
emanuel replied to: Sudarsan
post - 30 Nov, 2009
post - 30 Nov, 2009
37: I totally disagree.Real men dont have
emotions, they just dont care about anything
in the world.They dont really love,they just
pretend. They just marry to satisfy comply
with the society.On the other hand
marraige,divorce,death and life are really
huge thing in womens life. So this
quantification in terms of money is total
nonsense.
Posted by: krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
38:Speak for yourself...Men don't create scenes
to express their feelings like most women do
and yes attention to detail is not there in
men but that does'nt make a man completely
emotionless
vinu replied to: krishnakanth
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
39:I think you are like that, thats why you are
telling about yourself and about your
character, All men are not like that they
have emotions more than women
T.V.Sanoj Nambiar replied to: krishnakanth
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
40:This is 100% true. Most of the men always
want to showoff the society. Nothing true.
Priya replied to: krishnakanth
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
41:I don't agree with this. This may be happened
in few cases but this is not applicable to
all the men.
New Techs replied to: krishnakanth
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
42:i m fully satisfy with this statement.
mona replied to: krishnakanth
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
43: I agree because those mans who living there
life on right path will become like woman
means they will have more emotionals and
those woman who living there life on right
path will become like mans.
Posted by: J.P.Singh - 22 Nov, 2009
44: Looks like women need to learn counting
& Men need to stop exaggerating emotions & financials.
& Men need to stop exaggerating emotions & financials.
Posted by: Spirits Unleashed - 22 Nov, 2009
45:i m agree for your comments
Raj Narayan replied to: Spirits Unleashed
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
46: male chauvinistic approach....!
..definitely dis article must hav been written by some indian male..!
..definitely dis article must hav been written by some indian male..!
Posted by: Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
47:And I take your comment as one of the most
overused 'Defence Mechanism' of females. No
offenses, though.
Kishore replied to: Shruti
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
48:This artice is correct.This could be consider
only to those Men who feels i.e. A perfect
Human Being,and its not so that men want to
show their good side...
narendra replied to: Shruti
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
50: Very nice In between you started proposal
also.
Rahul mob no. 971553290754 replied to: ajay
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
51:ohh. yes ofcrs ..by d indian male experianced
wid typical indian women specially(Girl
naveen replied to: Shruti
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
52: this is quite true and a well experienced
fact also. Men are less showy in comparison
to women and this is where women take all the
credits.But the inside story is completely
different....
Posted by: Abhishek Dogra - 22 Nov, 2009
53: Do not count everything with money and
especially emotions. Some emotions are silent
and need not be measured.
Posted by: Shashi - 22 Nov, 2009
54: Reason for marriage may be because bride is
going away from her parents with whom she
spent her 25 years so it may reduce the
joy.
I question the way they did their research and may be men are more linked to money. My personal thoughts
I question the way they did their research and may be men are more linked to money. My personal thoughts
Posted by: Ankit Arora - 22 Nov, 2009
55:Ankit
Men also leaves quite a lot of stuff because of marriage. This research had captured accurately.
Men also leaves quite a lot of stuff because of marriage. This research had captured accurately.
Jeffy replied to: Ankit Arora
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
56:as a guirl u r so agree about the trouth , so
i appricioate ur thought.
but u never be the cause of the same & make some other as u .
then i will call u & say u ......
will u be my bebbo..
with a rose ,,,,,,,,,
but u never be the cause of the same & make some other as u .
then i will call u & say u ......
will u be my bebbo..
with a rose ,,,,,,,,,
shushil ku panigrahi replied to: Ankit Arora
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
57: mohanudupa....absolutely right.!
emotionas are totally subjective abd relative .!.dere are no parameters to calculate ne1's emotions...one shud use our own brain to jusdge what d persn in frnt is all about.!
emotionas are totally subjective abd relative .!.dere are no parameters to calculate ne1's emotions...one shud use our own brain to jusdge what d persn in frnt is all about.!
Posted by: smriti - 22 Nov, 2009
58: comparing men and women are started from
Vadic periods.. but its not at all fair..
comparing emotions...! its all upto them...
how you guys calculate once emotion..
worthless news...
Posted by: mohanudupa - 22 Nov, 2009
59: Value given to money by man is less than the
value women give to money. Thus this is not
the best way to compare the emotions. But it
still is the reflection of the opportunistic,
and cruel nature of women. A high level
debate can be made on this statistics.
Posted by: Rajesh - 22 Nov, 2009
60: Economics rules personal life, family life,
religion, culture, tradition, politics,
etc..............
Posted by: Altius - 22 Nov, 2009
61: The research is based on the random survey
should not be right all the time.But in my
opinion, man is surely more emotional then
the woman.I guess comparison to evaluate the
loss in terms of money is not right way to
show the findings of the research.In my
opinion, the final result must be concluded
by some female because their mind always
works on monetary aspects.
Posted by: Nilesh Vora - 21 Nov, 2009
62: This is a fact which many are unaware of and
this melancholy is one of the main reasons
for all the turmoil in this materialistic
world where emotions have negligible value
and that too in a very minimal few.
Posted by: Devesh Lath - 21 Nov, 2009
63: thats the one of the fact which people dont
know
Posted by: sandip - 21 Nov, 2009
64: men are also more intelligent than women in
all terms
men are great
dibupaulkk@gmail.com
dibu.k.paul@accenture.com
(author is the founder of categor.com)
men are great
dibupaulkk@gmail.com
dibu.k.paul@accenture.com
(author is the founder of categor.com)
Posted by: dibupaulkk - 21 Nov, 2009
65: Men are more generous than any women. Woman
might think that they have market forever,
wherever and whenever.
Posted by: SANTOSH - 21 Nov, 2009
66: "estimated the value of happiness in terms of
cash". The figures in all ways shows men are
losing more in terms of qualitative and
quantitative of LIFE. This proves that men
are less materialistic compared to women.
That is, the more and more level of
materialism, the less will be emotions.
Posted by: Altius - 21 Nov, 2009
67: I think it is someshat eroneous conclusion. I
believe men and women on an average are
equally emotional. When we tag emotion in
monetary terms then the exchange rate may
vary between men and women. One has to find
out whether men and women both have same
opinion about money, whether the persons
interview have the same level of income (men
and women). As far as I know indian women,
they are no less emotional than men and if
you really ask me the Birth of child for men
or women is so invaluable that to price tag
can be put and so is marriage and so is the
loss of loved ones. it is equally devastating
for men and women in general.
Posted by: Prashant - 21 Nov, 2009
68:Quantification in terms of money is really
nonsense but it really is true that men are
more emotional than women. You should be a
Buddha or Swami Vivekananda and you will be
true.
Shank replied to: Prashant
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
69: I think I question here is abt Y R mens more
emotional than women? Its so simple. I really
don't understand wat stuff R U ppl taking
abt.
Here s d reason Y I feel men's R more emotional....check it
Basically the environment in which person is bought up, is wat the reason is all Abt. Girls/women/ladies...watever - They have always a restriction or more limitations , they get used to word "NO" since their childhood. Tht's wat make them strong to get adjusted to any kind of situation. But in case of boys/guys/men, they have given all kind liberty and they mental ability to accept the word "REJECT" is nt tht easy. Boys/Guys/men- pls stop blaming girls/ladies/women's for ur mistakes and get prepared mentally to accept the challenges in Life. Plz dont understand their tears- It is the one which really make them strong.
I don't knw hw many of U accept this, but its the FACT..
Here s d reason Y I feel men's R more emotional....check it
Basically the environment in which person is bought up, is wat the reason is all Abt. Girls/women/ladies...watever - They have always a restriction or more limitations , they get used to word "NO" since their childhood. Tht's wat make them strong to get adjusted to any kind of situation. But in case of boys/guys/men, they have given all kind liberty and they mental ability to accept the word "REJECT" is nt tht easy. Boys/Guys/men- pls stop blaming girls/ladies/women's for ur mistakes and get prepared mentally to accept the challenges in Life. Plz dont understand their tears- It is the one which really make them strong.
I don't knw hw many of U accept this, but its the FACT..
Posted by: Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
70:Dear,
you are very less aware of women.women are too smart and selfish in many times.dont believe outward of women.its big logic and allmost impossible to understand them.
regards,
raju
you are very less aware of women.women are too smart and selfish in many times.dont believe outward of women.its big logic and allmost impossible to understand them.
regards,
raju
M S raju replied to: Nirupa
post - 28 Nov, 2009
post - 28 Nov, 2009
71:ya u r rite...tats the reason we guys nvr
belive in cryin guls... one more thing being
a Man we never shed our tears or show it out,
we guys used to think tat bein stuborn
without showin out our emotion is Manlly, so
we ppl r stuck to tat...brought up in such
culture... so culture and individual
character plays vital role....
sripaul replied to: Nirupa
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
73: Mr Urooj Gi.....its nt philosophy but the
fact. Just see the things going around
U....i'm sure U will accept it :)
Have a gr8 day
Have a gr8 day
Nirupa replied to: Urooj Zaidi
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
75: but society never let women to live their
lives in their own manner .for them needs to
be depended on man......
Gurpreet Kaur replied to: Shiva
post - 29 Nov, 2009
post - 29 Nov, 2009
77:yes nirupa yo right it depends on
individual....n how they are born n brought
up...see ya take care........
sowmya replied to: Nirupa
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
78: Hi Sowmya....thnx for UR support dear....
U knw wat... everyone don't understand and if they don't accept it. Hardly ppl like U and me understand it and accept it ... Have a gr8 day and week to
U knw wat... everyone don't understand and if they don't accept it. Hardly ppl like U and me understand it and accept it ... Have a gr8 day and week to
Nirupa replied to: sowmya
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
79:Great one Nirupa.. Yahh i think ur
observation is absoloutly perfect... It is a
grt suggestion really... Hv a grt life...
Sandip replied to: Nirupa
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
80: Hi Sandip.....thnx for Ur support.Observation
is wat makes one to lead a good and better
life... :)
Nirupa replied to: Sandip
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
81: This is the fact absolutely 100% correct. I
am a professor in a B-School in dept. of
management in Delhi..I can feel all this
because i m a divorcee and our separation is
not due to us. it was just the interference
of her father..even in the court room Judge
was also surprised that my wife is not saying
anything against me..but her parents were
destroying the beautiful house of their
daughter..Thanks a lot to all Silicon India
team..
Posted by: William John - 21 Nov, 2009
82:Yes dear,
you are correct.unncessarily women relitives wants to support to their sister nor duughter with no clear idea about her. her innosense just crates interference irrelated people leads collapse of beautiful home further no chance to build back.
regards,
Raju
you are correct.unncessarily women relitives wants to support to their sister nor duughter with no clear idea about her. her innosense just crates interference irrelated people leads collapse of beautiful home further no chance to build back.
regards,
Raju
raju replied to: William John
post - 29 Nov, 2009
post - 29 Nov, 2009
83:yes, ur right...parents to destroy often
their children's life cause of selfishness
and ego..but i have to say tht my parents are
great..they would never do anything to make
me sad..but still they too have their rules i
have to follow..
Gia replied to: William John
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
84: I just say that Men feel more emotional than
Women. Because an emotion or a feeling in a
person is induced or developed on the basis
of ones inherit settings of majestic
qualities of heart senses such as love,
kindness, sympathy and forgiveness etc.
The rates of these qualities present in human nature do vary from person to person and is not uniform in all. So far a human being has not invented an instrument to scale this feeling rate present in the fellow human beings.
A feeling or emotion developed in a person on the basis of time, conditions and environment only. And also these feelings are emotions cannot be rated on gender basis. At times something may appear as too impressive but the same may look as different in other direction. Every feeling that develops in human senses is frequently interchanging with time and conditions. It’s difficult to apply same settings of feelings to everyone as uniformly and thus decide the unit rate of ones feeling in Pounds, Dollars etc.
I really do not see any essence in this topic to discuss. It’s really meaningless.
The rates of these qualities present in human nature do vary from person to person and is not uniform in all. So far a human being has not invented an instrument to scale this feeling rate present in the fellow human beings.
A feeling or emotion developed in a person on the basis of time, conditions and environment only. And also these feelings are emotions cannot be rated on gender basis. At times something may appear as too impressive but the same may look as different in other direction. Every feeling that develops in human senses is frequently interchanging with time and conditions. It’s difficult to apply same settings of feelings to everyone as uniformly and thus decide the unit rate of ones feeling in Pounds, Dollars etc.
I really do not see any essence in this topic to discuss. It’s really meaningless.
Posted by: Vinod - 21 Nov, 2009
85: ...it means, men take things seriously...:-),
if someone(men/women)is serious enough
definitely its going into his/her
head/heart...
after all...things vary from person to person...there is no scale which can count such things...
after all...things vary from person to person...there is no scale which can count such things...
Posted by: Urooj Zaidi - 21 Nov, 2009
86: I am sorry for my english.. but i m telling
my feelings..I think that is right.. Most of
the time mans always crying but they dint
show to every body .. girls thoought boys
dont have heart.. but they not thinking abt
boys..
girls use the boys like one solder. when they upset then always boys can help not girls.. because they can understand her feelings..
i saw the world and m notice every time .. boys understand what girls want but girls can not understand his feeling...
girls use the boys like one solder. when they upset then always boys can help not girls.. because they can understand her feelings..
i saw the world and m notice every time .. boys understand what girls want but girls can not understand his feeling...
Posted by: hiten - 21 Nov, 2009
87:Sorry......I personally think that men and
women are equally emotional coz both are
human being....as human being they also have
heart....so felling are equal for men and
women but also depend on person to
person....But yes u r right that women can
cry infornt of any1 but men are not....
I dont agree that girls are thinking men are 1 shoulder.....but its not true.......men are always showing that they are 1 man shoulder......they cant understand woman's felling......
I dont agree that girls are thinking men are 1 shoulder.....but its not true.......men are always showing that they are 1 man shoulder......they cant understand woman's felling......
Luna Das replied to: hiten
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
88:very well said that GIRLS can never ever
undrstnd BOYS feelings they just thing that v
all do not have hearts to undrstand their
problem..A very ongoin example i m qouting n
whosoever read pls pray 4 my love to come
back in my life
again.................................
I have met a girl called RIDHI GAMBHIR n slowly n slowly we too fell in love with each other very deeply..i always try 2 help her in any of the problem related to any field..we were so deep in love that whole day n night just passed in talking to each other..i was really addicted to her like alcohol..but in a moment she forgot each n everything which was between us n left me alone just cos i was doin MBA n she was doin MCA..she thinks that i was unable to help her in her problems...she left me alone turning the hole world dark 4 me..these GIRLS r really like HELL..those got gud but those left more HELL..“A Broken Heart is a heart that has felt love.....”
I have met a girl called RIDHI GAMBHIR n slowly n slowly we too fell in love with each other very deeply..i always try 2 help her in any of the problem related to any field..we were so deep in love that whole day n night just passed in talking to each other..i was really addicted to her like alcohol..but in a moment she forgot each n everything which was between us n left me alone just cos i was doin MBA n she was doin MCA..she thinks that i was unable to help her in her problems...she left me alone turning the hole world dark 4 me..these GIRLS r really like HELL..those got gud but those left more HELL..“A Broken Heart is a heart that has felt love.....”
SAMEER KHAN replied to: hiten
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
89: Hi Sameer i dont know y u still pray god to
her come back as she didnt loves u truely
just forget her start a new life have faith
in you.when she meets u next time she should
feel that i missed a such a loving and caring
person in her life.........
All the best for ur future.
All the best for ur future.
Mamthadev replied to: SAMEER KHAN
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
90: Dear Sameer, it seems it wasnt Love, she came
to you just to seek friendship on terms of
help. Move ahead and close this chapter of
your life.
Regarding the ongoing topic, I would say, I am far more emotional than my Girl. But only thing I feel exist behind all issues is our ego itself. Men hate to ask for help when it comes to a women becoz Men pretend to be strong and all rounder but unfortunately they are not (everyone has limitations). And Women dont understand that if they make the first "Move" which might be 1% of a relationship, the Men are capable of carrying out the relationship to entire 99% which is left without complain. May be some girls think vice versa.
Regarding the ongoing topic, I would say, I am far more emotional than my Girl. But only thing I feel exist behind all issues is our ego itself. Men hate to ask for help when it comes to a women becoz Men pretend to be strong and all rounder but unfortunately they are not (everyone has limitations). And Women dont understand that if they make the first "Move" which might be 1% of a relationship, the Men are capable of carrying out the relationship to entire 99% which is left without complain. May be some girls think vice versa.
Planning to Marry replied to: SAMEER KHAN
post - 22 Nov, 2009
post - 22 Nov, 2009
91: Dear Sameer, in what ever the case, you are
not supposed to make her name public. If you
really loved her, and your love is
unconditional, then you shl think for her
good.
Kummy replied to: SAMEER KHAN
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
92: I really appreciate about ur unconditional
love statement made to Sameer its really
good.........
Mamathadev replied to: Kummy
post - 23 Nov, 2009
post - 23 Nov, 2009
93: i disagree with this.............comment
coz..
i know a girl who was so faithful to her husband...but just because she was in her parents house for 4 months as her mom was getting operated her husband started a new affair with a girl, but still acting as he was loyal to his wife,,,after she found that he had affiar and confirmed the same with his girlfriend, she left him.
She says that Guys are worthless to have one`s true love to their life time, they always want just a female next to them, they dont have emotions, feelings or conscience.....
i know a girl who was so faithful to her husband...but just because she was in her parents house for 4 months as her mom was getting operated her husband started a new affair with a girl, but still acting as he was loyal to his wife,,,after she found that he had affiar and confirmed the same with his girlfriend, she left him.
She says that Guys are worthless to have one`s true love to their life time, they always want just a female next to them, they dont have emotions, feelings or conscience.....
leftalone replied to: SAMEER KHAN
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
94: or i must add that individuality is
independent of the gender.
Posted by: rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
95: perhaps men are flirting all the time, so
marriage becomes a special occasion to them,
while women have always known that there
would be only one guy to whom they would
bestow their love upon. hence, the occasion
of marriage is not anything different from
their usual dimension of
discipline/sincerity.
Posted by: rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
96:Good try Rashee! Human females are the
world's most non trust able creature that
roams this planet. We cannot blame GOD also.
He tried his best to create emotional human
females. She is different from females of
every other mammals. For example, a female
cow (supposed to be more emotional creature)
has its milking glands near its hind legs.
But for a human female he (God) placed them
near her heart so that her heart might open
with repeated sucking. Sorry God, wrong
design, does not work!
brahma replied to: rashee saxena
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
97:Nice throughts...whats is your matrimonial
ID?
NVK replied to: rashee saxena
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
98: Hi All,
Let us not be biased. Every human being(male/female)is emotional, but only few display it. Let us not forget that this study talks about the loss of happiness in terms of money which is not the right thing to do.
I think all the materialistic men will agree with this whereas men who value relations would not agree to this.
Let us not be biased. Every human being(male/female)is emotional, but only few display it. Let us not forget that this study talks about the loss of happiness in terms of money which is not the right thing to do.
I think all the materialistic men will agree with this whereas men who value relations would not agree to this.
Posted by: Chandrashekar - 21 Nov, 2009
99:I think you did not understand what he means.
Measurement has to be done in some currency
and therefore he is doing it with the most
common currency used by humans i.e. money.
Bijli replied to: Chandrashekar
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
100: i dont agree..cause i know a man who shows no
kind of emotions.nothing.while he is enjoyin
his life ..tht girl is suffering..still..even
month later..even as she was worried after
she heard tht he had an accident..he didnt
reply.so i dont agree tht men are more
emotional.some of them listen to their mom's
and loos their heart..now i would say..man
can be more cruel..they can be heartless
..but not a woman.
Posted by: Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
101:Hi Gia,
I m not agree with you. One very good example is nw a days girls are more professional than a man. I know a person who is very close friend of mine and he is working ion very good company. His girl friend left him in lure after every thing is fianilised(Marraiage)only because she found a guy who is also working but he has very large parantel asset.
We all friend very hardly make him to recover from this siutuation. Now me n my friends completely lost faith in women comunity.
What u can say when two persons commited for 3-4 years and they r going to be married within two months and sunddenly girls left boy saying she cannot live with him.
Very strange to know when we looked into her history which cannot be described in words.
I m not agree with you. One very good example is nw a days girls are more professional than a man. I know a person who is very close friend of mine and he is working ion very good company. His girl friend left him in lure after every thing is fianilised(Marraiage)only because she found a guy who is also working but he has very large parantel asset.
We all friend very hardly make him to recover from this siutuation. Now me n my friends completely lost faith in women comunity.
What u can say when two persons commited for 3-4 years and they r going to be married within two months and sunddenly girls left boy saying she cannot live with him.
Very strange to know when we looked into her history which cannot be described in words.
Robin replied to: Gia
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
102: sorry Robin,but the same thing as u said with
the boy happened in my case with the girl.
both were living out of india..bbut still not
same ountry.had relationship,lived together n
all.noone of his friends in india, blr, knew
abt tht girl.finally he had to go back caus
visa thing back to blr.meanwhile his mom get
to know abt their relationship and did
everything to split them.they wanted to
marry.now..he n his parents are lookin for a
girl for him to get married.girl is still
abroad.usually ppl say tht girls abroad are
not like girls in india..but in this case.the
guy, left her,and she is down.he is enjoyin
life with his friends, cause noone knws there
tht he ever had a gf as he was abroud for
higherstudies. so his world is clean, but she
is suffering..as i said..he didnt even reply,
as the girl msged him whether he is ok or not
after accident.wht u say now? tht girl is
sufferin a lot..she is in an age she has to
marry.she said till now to all proposals no
cause he promised to make it up with his
parents..as he went to blr and had tht
joyfull life back, not like abroad..he left
her cause his mom said n wants to marry a
girl from there..the girl who should be the
bride as they planned has now to watch how he
is gettin married to somonelse..wht u say now
Gia replied to: Robin
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
103:m not agree with Gia.. why every time mans
shows his emotions... if she loke him or love
him .. why she is not understand his feeling
.. boys want to enjoys his life with his gf
but most gf always telling .. \" dont do
this. i dont like that .. \" if boys like
that so they have to support but not for all
thing but at least support..
\"some of them listen to their mom\'s and loos their heart\"
for this line .. if he is listening his moms so what is bad.. girls not listen her mother ..
m notice most of times... they are not thinking when they angry.. man have also heart... but that time they didnt think abt that,,,,
\"some of them listen to their mom\'s and loos their heart\"
for this line .. if he is listening his moms so what is bad.. girls not listen her mother ..
m notice most of times... they are not thinking when they angry.. man have also heart... but that time they didnt think abt that,,,,
hiten replied to: Gia
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
104:i agree with u Gia mens are too hard to
understand they belive in their own interest.
Sachin replied to: Gia
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
105:Hey Gia I dont know about u but my experience
says that men's are more caring than womens
its just a matter of chance how much u
beleive in each other And my question to u,
if u live with one who is caring for u for
entire life until u get on board for ur life
how can u leeave her (Mom) alone for someone
who u just got a month or one year back... is
it fare? and u cant blame someone.. if
something goes wrong.
Binesh replied to: Gia
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
106: Women should understand that a mother is most
important person in the world for a
man...anyways you will realize that when you
get you child married.
NVK replied to: Binesh
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
107: It is true men are more emotional, it is
because the men are being head and
responsible - he never share much of his
problem with many - the outburst is an
emotional behaviour.
Otherwise women get more often, known to every one that makes no difference. But once the men does it - it is known to all.
Otherwise women get more often, known to every one that makes no difference. But once the men does it - it is known to all.
Posted by: uppukar - 21 Nov, 2009
108: Ya realy mens are more emotional than
womens.becouse mens did that for women whose
they cn't did think and did for men.This my
thinking and this is real truth.
Posted by: premjeet kaushik - 21 Nov, 2009
109: Yeah, its tru. Women r weaker by arms but
stronger in emotions rather than men can.
Women takes lots of time to flow emotions...
and men gets emotional in meanwhile.
Posted by: chandan - 21 Nov, 2009
110: that's really a fantastic post ! added to my
favourite blogs list.. I have been reading
your blog last couple of weeks and enjoy
every bit. Thanks.Pest control las Vegas
Posted by: nikki - 21 Nov, 2009
111: what i feel is that men usually are not
comfortable in letting out their
feelings/emotions cause as we grow, we are
told that men are stronger and should not
cry. whereas women cry and shares her
feelings asap, which make her feel strong
after she tells it to someone. i think the
results just shows the difference in
upbringing of a boy and a girl.
Posted by: someone - 21 Nov, 2009
114: hn...women r emotional but nt strong dts y
dey keep cryin ol time... dey jst irritate
othrz by doin dis.. y r dey so weak...? so
dependant on othrz.. dey xpect thngs frm
othrs n den get hurt wen xpectations don
fulfil.. hm.... dey rely on men.... itz sad..
women dere.... b independant...
Posted by: navpreet kaur - 21 Nov, 2009
115: I think this analysis has been made through a
survey, which infact is conducted by direct
questioning or analysis of behaviour. I think
women fall short because of their capability
of hiding emotions while men generally are
strong on the outside, but when they let
their feelings out, they score high.
Posted by: Saurabh Dey - 21 Nov, 2009
116: I really agree with the newsletter. Women
wants everything immediately and instantly.
All their emotions are instant and worthless.
They believe on everything and does hate
their beloved ones very easily. They never
love the long term relationship, but they are
very fond of making quick love and fake
affection. They need to change!
Posted by: Anbu - 21 Nov, 2009
117: Perfect ...... me 1001% agree with dis
artcl....rly 100 true dis is....
Posted by: Sugato Sen - 21 Nov, 2009
119:I was responding to naomivice. Men and women
both have emotions. Fear, anger, hurt,
sadness, all are emotions and are shared by
both men and women. Men do cry, men do share
their feelings just like women do. In a
divorce men lose more money than women do and
that's the norm and for many reasons. One is
because men usually get paid more than women
on a job, could be because men are expected
to support so they start out a marriage with
more money and are able to save more during
the marriage and hide what they save, and
because it's more expensive for a women to
live in that she has more clothes, more
make-up and such than men do.
christie fox replied to: christie fox
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
120: Really womens are very controling of their
emotions, but they will play with men's life
Posted by: raghu - 21 Nov, 2009
122: gosh...this is so true.. actually dis is a
universal fact... women jus know hw to ruin a
men\'s lfe. they are bloody practical. they
very well knw unka fayda kisme hai...period.
Posted by: punit mishra - 21 Nov, 2009
123: yes i agree 100 n 10 % correct.For example
allmost all poet Written by men.
Psysologists, Philossopers 99% men because
they r more emotionals.Womens only just
showing physically by tearing.crying but they
dont feel heartfully.
Posted by: Durga - 21 Nov, 2009
124:hey durga...what ever u said is perfect..both
men and women have emotions but we dont show
it,doesnt means that we we dont hae
emotions..but one more important thing is
that womens are more stronger than men when
it comes to mentally..
venkat
vti.venkat@gmail.com
venkat
vti.venkat@gmail.com
venkat replied to: Durga
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
125: Yeah I agree to this... Women let out their
emotions through tears or by sharing their
feelings to others. But men hardly does this.
All ladies pls accept this strange FACT :)
Posted by: Woman - 21 Nov, 2009
126: This is a stupid war someone made up between
men and women. Some men are way more
emotional than other men as some women are to
women. Alot of it depends on upbringing and
the emotions expressed in former family life.
I,ve seen more and less expessed from both.
Naomi Ruth
Posted by: naomivice - 21 Nov, 2009
127:yeah .. the woman of today has evolved as
emotionally strong character of society, but
by crying they let the anguish ventilated
which seems quite sensible too, so we men
should learn to weep and no to keep ...
sandyclone replied to: naomivice
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
128:I agree to this,there is no scale to measure
the emotional parameter, its actually how
close u r and how hard u r hit...
best wishes to all,
Anupam Sharma
best wishes to all,
Anupam Sharma
Anupam Sharma replied to: naomivice
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
129: Dear ,
Its more than 100% true that womens are no ever emotional,simply they use to shows up their self..... and killing mens life
Its more than 100% true that womens are no ever emotional,simply they use to shows up their self..... and killing mens life
Posted by: sanjay - 21 Nov, 2009
131: " Losing a loved one has a much bigger effect
than gaining a loved one. There's an
asymmetry between life and death". True...
Posted by: Men... - 20 Nov, 2009
132: Dear Lord, please give me back the 20 seconds
I wasted in reading this article.
Posted by: lowToleranceForNonsense - 20 Nov, 2009
133:You wasted another few seconds by writing
this! You ass--- got to be smart :)
Fcuk replied to: lowToleranceForNonsense
post - 20 Nov, 2009
post - 20 Nov, 2009
134: Its 100 percent true. Women always feel than
they are more emotional, but its totally
wrong.
Posted by: Tamanna - 20 Nov, 2009
135:IM NOT AGREE WITH YOU ITS 1000% TRUE Men are
more emotional than women .
AZMI replied to: Tamanna
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
137:I am not agree with Tamanna.in present time
Women are not sensible & imotional in
comparison of Men.
Raj Solanki replied to: Tamanna
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
139: YES..........Tammana aap ki baat me taassur
nahi hai ...womens are not control on her
emotional and her feelings......so i tell you
womens are more emotional than mens.
Akka replied to: raj singh
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
140: i do agree with Tamanna and Rashi.Women are
more practical as comapred tom man.
Varun Sharma replied to: raj singh
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
141: very true.. women are far more emotionally
strong than men.
rashi replied to: raj singh
post - 20 Nov, 2009
post - 20 Nov, 2009
142: i agree with girla here.... women are far
better in case of controlling emotions
Payal replied to: rashi
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
143: It may be some what true. But The birth of a
child created a low cash amount....I wont
agree with this statement
siraj replied to: rashi
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
144: well thats a comparative scale..
vishal replied to: siraj
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
145: I really agree with the newsletter. Women
wants everything immediatly and instantly.
All their emotions are instant and worthless.
They beleive on everything and does hate
their beloved ones very easily. They never
love the long term relationship, but they are
very fond of making quick love and fake
affection. They need to change!
Anbu replied to: siraj
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
146:27.its not agreeing abt to dis article n
all...emotions are totally relative n
subjective it differs from one indiviual to
anoder.bt dis is also tru dan women r more
smarter dan men..dey r more practical..men
most f d tyms r nerds ...having least amount
f social sense..!just coz f such weaknesses
of men..god made women to support and help
dem to accomplish deir goals..!
reality replied to: Anbu
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
147: i agree with the thoughts above...its an
individual who is emotional not any gender -
male or female...I know few males who are
really dedeicated to the females in their
life and few females who are also the
same.
I would say, male show their emotions only before the girl in their life, that's y we say males r more emotional...however, females are like an open book generally, they easily puke their feelings before anyone who is very close to them...so their emotions get distributed...n when such kind of survey happens...the result is before us...
I would say, male show their emotions only before the girl in their life, that's y we say males r more emotional...however, females are like an open book generally, they easily puke their feelings before anyone who is very close to them...so their emotions get distributed...n when such kind of survey happens...the result is before us...
Neh replied to: reality
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
148: I don't know in what sense you are saying
that women are smarter than men. There are
simply lot of scales to measure this. You ask
any male he'll say the other way around. Ask
a girl and she'll most probably agree with
you. However looking at my own experiences in
dealing with women I do agree with the
article and most of the comments made here.
rdx1312 replied to: reality
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
149: what i see here there is no difference in men
or women emotion , even this is not true that
men are more stronger in any sense but yes
whole society and religion and scripture are
made and ruled by men since thousand of years
so every things revolved between them in
favor , the basic difference is just
biological body structure nothing more than
that , the core and bottom is sweet soul
inside where some one is awaken and someone
is fast asleep.
Ashutosh
Ashutosh
Ashutosh replied to: rdx1312
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
150: Its really nonsense to compare a men and
women when god himself has made them in such
a different manner.Both holds their own
special place in their own respective
field.Both are complementary to each other,in
some areas men are the leaders while in
others women are the dominators.! There are
no fix and stringent parameters or methods to
manipulate anybody's emotions.If men are
great philosophers then they are the most
hrad hearted creatures as well..take the
example of terrorists(osama bin laden,daud n
all).so i dont think so that just this
article is enough to judge any man or
woman..god has given us a mind to use and
judge of our own that who is what!
reality replied to: rdx1312
post - 21 Nov, 2009
post - 21 Nov, 2009
Disclaimer
Messages posted on this Web site under the `Comments' area are solely the opinions of those who have posted them and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Infoconnect Web Technologies India Pvt Ltd or its site www.siliconindia.com. Gossip, mud slinging and malicious attacks on individuals and organizations are strictly prohibited. Infoconnect Web Technologies India Pvt Ltd can not be held responsible for errors or omissions in content, nor for the authenticity of the user/company name or email addresses associated with posted messages. Infoconnect Web Technologies India Pvt Ltd reserves the right to edit or remove messages containing inappropriate language or any other material that could be construed as libelous, potentially libelous,
or otherwise offensive or inappropriate.Infoconnect Web Technologies India Pvt Ltd do not endorse the products and services or any other offerings mentioned in these messages.
Recent posts from Weekend news
- IIMs' high salary: The true story has a twist
- Indian workforce most mobile globally: Survey
- Bharti Airtel forays into entertainment business
- In the social media era, email lives on
- Obama donates Nobel Peace Prize money
- Australian hearing care centre comes to India
- Koobface worm doubles its number in 48 hours
- Literate or illiterate, cutting edge tech for all
- Nimsoft to be acquired by CA for $350 Million
- Maharashtra Scooters shares up 10 percent
- Firms sell 'readymade projects' to engg students
- IIMs' high salary: The true story has a twist
- India has least no. of corporate women leaders
- Deemed universities concerned about revenue
- IIM grads prefer domestic offers to international ones
- Vineet Nayyar donates Rs. 30 Crore to charity
- Indian academia not upto industry standard
- BSNL's non-cellular business incurs Rs. 4,963 Crore loss
- CA top salary zooms to Rs. 70 Lakh
- Poor India creates millionaires at fastest pace
