Negotiation Instead of Court Case When it comes to divorce, most of the men feel that winning in court is how a divorce case can be won. But unfortunately, 90 percent men come across the fact it is nowhere near to that. Its better if you discuss the advantages and disadvantages of going through negotiation instead of court cases seperately with your respective spouses. It will not only rip you off your money but will cause extra damage to your emotional personalities. The costs can take up a dramatic shape, as negotiation will cost you nothinhg but your lawyers fee but a court case can be cost you 10 times more of it.