The Modern Indian Girl: Battling The Stereotyping
That notwithstanding, their parents, in the endeavour to settle them down at a 'right age', resort to finding arranged matches, via relatives, friends, and now often through matrimonial sites.
According to a news report, the very fact that Pillai's parents made her sound desperate to get married to a "good groom" in the "groom wanted" ad, drove her to create her rebellious "matrimonial CV" on a website - marry.indhuja.com -- to ensure that the right message reaches the 'right' candidate.
The profile created by her parents highlighted her education and occupation, while her self-created profile shared more insights about her personality, interests and expectations. This included her revealing: "I'm not a drinker and I hate smoking. An eggitarian, not a foodie. I play badminton, sing and dance.
"I wear glasses and look dorky in them...NOT a womanly woman. Definitely not marriage material. Won't grow long hair, ever. I come with a life-long guarantee and I commit for life."
Her partner preference is also as clear as it gets.
Kudos to Pillai, says 28-year-old Trisha Naik, whose family sits with profiles of shortlisted candidates on a matrimonial site every weekend.
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