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Sex-less Marriage On The Rise

By SiliconIndia   |   Friday, 30 March 2012, 11:16 Hrs   |    15 Comments
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Bangalore: It is officially declared that marital celibacy is an ‘undeniable epidemic.’ The land of the Kamasutra is in the midst of a sexual scarcity that is destroying the sacred institution of marriage, and is getting worse with each passing day. Only 20 percent of Indian couples have sex more than once a week, down from 37 percent in 2004 revealed a recent India Today sex survey. Lakshmi Chaudhry, Author, Firstpost stated the top four reasons for the sex-deprived marital lives in today’s world.



1. Affluence:



The big city couples are the standard-bearers of the ‘New Indian marriage’ and term it under “we have lots of stuff, and not much sex.”  The new rules of up market marriages is that  more and more young married couples have decided that sex is no longer the mark of or, for that matter, even crucial to a good marriage. For couples these days, physical relationships are becoming optional.



There is an inverse relationship between affluence and marital sex. Everyone is too busy working hard for that shiny new car, big promotion, or the hefty bonus to pay for the children’s fancy school. Your home after 10 hours spent attending meetings, making presentations, pleasing the bosses, filing reports, responding to a hundred emails, and all this followed by obligatory drinks with the team. And then you end up feigning a head-ache and soon enough, sex becomes one more item on that ever-growing to-do list.



In fact, the small towns fared far higher in terms of sexual satisfaction in the India Today survey. Sexual satisfaction in Jaipur was at 74 percent and just 12 percent in Delhi. So the bottom line is when life is boring, there’s always sex and vice-versa.



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1: Sex is an understanding of two able ones.It is seen in tribal folk that they have no adequate work to do to earn and so they spend time in sex at any point of time and place. So it happens for kings. But to speak of the people to day we, have no time because we use time in other ways of facilitating life easy. Sex needs leisure time and pre initiation is time taklin, so we ignore or postpone and then it tracksin a habit. Party and social gathering does not help too.weekly once , if possible helps for work life balance and get ride stress.It holds good a mental and physical satisfaction. Thanks. Ashok Panda, Bhubaneswar
Posted by:Ashok Panda - 07 Apr, 2012
2: For every successful man there is a woman behind him. Woman working or not, should take this subject as an important and pleasurable one. If woman can start it man will follow it for a successful married life. All the best....
Posted by:Anish - 07 Apr, 2012
3: the work environment in India is so pressurising lot of people are not even married and a lot of them who are marreid dont like sex due to work pressor or not having time to do this act.
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Posted by:sdgdsg - 01 Apr, 2012
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Posted by:Puja - 31 Mar, 2012
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yea! I agree with that.
Jessica Replied to: Puja - 31 Mar, 2012
7: The Science of Life, explained in the Vedas, allows only regulated sex. SEx is not for pleasure, but for procreation; to enjoy "Prajananda amrit" Human life is devided into four stages, Brahma charya, Grihasthashrama, Vasnaprasta and Sanyas. Brahmacharya, the stage before marriage, is the period for total abstinaance from sex. Marraige is the greatest regulation in sex life.One man and one woman decide to live togother, practicing fidelity. That itself is a regulation. They are expected to have sex for procreation.
Pleasure of marrreid life is "love", "not lust". It is this realization that makes you different from cats and dogs. It is the willing acceptance of this regulation, that purifies you from animal level of existence to spiritual livel, qualifed for liberation, from the miserable repeated existence in the material world (samsara sagar) Vanaprastha is the stage when husband and wife live together, avoiding sex, and giving each other "pure love and service" not lust, Sanyasa is seperation, "without divorce', when lust is totally avoided.
'Love' and 'lust' are totally different. Husband and wife, living together, giving each other plenty of 'love" with regulated 'lust'
is traditional indian concept of grihasthasrama. True love between husband and wife, compensate 'regularted lust'. That is the spirit of "sex-less marriage" in Indian tradition. That is waht makes the basis of traditional Indian culture. Let us not look at it with the eyes of the west where 'love' and 'lust' are synonyms.
Posted by:Sundaresan Nair - 31 Mar, 2012
8:
I disagree. Nowhere in the Vedas, its written that Sex is just for procreation. If you have read the Vedas thoroughly, please let me know the hymes that say what you are telling here. Vedas are not so restrictive and impractical because it was written in a age where restrictions and regulations of modern days were absent. Also, the Vedas and Upnishadas were written by people of great knowledge and experience who can't deny the importance of sex in married life.
Amit Kumar Replied to: Sundaresan Nair - 08 Apr, 2012
9:
As always, when there's any talk of something like sex or drugs or anything considered immoral, there will always be someone blaming The West. The western world has nothing to do with this. Indians have been having sex for pleasure since they discovered what it was. You mean to say the courtesans that the kings had and the kamasutra and all that was some pious, holy mission? Where does the love component come into the picture with a courtesan? And it's not like it's just the new , younger generations who are having premarital sex and aping the west now. Every generation has done it, this generation is just more honest about it. Extra marital affairs happen everywhere in India, but we all like to think that we're very holy and pure, when in reality, those people are just very good at lying. The study makes sense. There is too much work pressure in India, add to that all the expectations people have of each other, and arranged marriages are definitely a big factor because who will want to regularly sleep with someone they barely know/relate to. And then you have this fake holier than thou attitude which makes people too shy to consider discussing any problems with their marriage. In my opinion, people should be allowed to have whatever marriage makes both of them happy, but it is unfortunate that there is so much formality in so many marriages in India. That is why there are so many spoilt children too, because they become the sole source of joy for the parents and they dote on them like babies even when they're grownups and thus make them the laughing stock of people all over the world.
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11: Boss the work environment in India is so pressurising lot of people are not even married and a lot of them who are marreid dont like it
Posted by:dennis - 31 Mar, 2012
12: one and the most important reason, premarital sex, is missed out. when everyone is interested in early age and buy like grocery in market whenever is needed all five reasons will appear as right reasons for their sexual life. I am sure if one of the partner who was not interested in sex find his/her school finace or fiancee after long time he or she will take a break from their daily life just to have, in current generation.
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15: the reasons seem pretty convincing!
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