Division of Labor Union is not about getting married. In today's world friendships, live-in relationships and even long courtships can be considered as union. Two people staying together always demand for personal space, which also includes money. Individualism can best be asserted with a control over finances. Counselors state that most of the couples that come for help often get into an argument based on monetary issues, which rips the relation apart. In modern days the responsibilities needs to be split between two than burdened on one. If one pays the EMIs, the other needs to take up the household responsibility. If school fees are ticked on one's task list, children's clothes should be included in others.