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Men are more emotional than women

By SiliconIndia   |   Friday, 20 November 2009, 21:10 Hrs   |    150 Comments
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Men are more emotional than women
Bangalore: Tying the knot makes men feel happy to the worth of 18,000 pounds while women experience the joy worth only half the amount.

Paul Frijters, Queensland University of Technology, estimated the value of happiness in terms of cash for the major events in life like marriage, divorce and illness. Each of the event shows different results for men and women.

While divorce leave men feeling a loss of 61,500 pounds, for women it was a just a loss of 5,000 pounds.
The birth of a child created a low cash amount, about 18,000 pounds for a man and less than 5,000 pounds for a woman.

According to the findings, the death of a partner or a child creates the feeling of a loss of 73,000 pounds to a woman and more than 350,000 pounds to a man.

Losing a loved one has a much bigger effect than gaining a loved one. There's an asymmetry between life and death. This shouldn't surprise us. Human beings seem to notice losses more than gains.

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1: There is no doubt women always surching new persons and spend her time with them up to her happy. Women is happy with money. Women never care of men feelings.
Posted by:KG Reddy - 04 Dec, 2009
2:
No, this is not true, Every women is not like this some women like your mother is not like this do you belive.
sandesh Replied to: KG Reddy - 10 Dec, 2009
3:
u have never known ur mother or ur mother is expert enough to hide dual personality
--- Replied to: sandesh - 10 Dec, 2009
4: I think gender is not a matter for having such a quality i.e., emotion. It's dependent on mental condition of a human being and some chemistry. I also think that emotional weight must not compared to money. Yah, money is important for survive but not at all such that it can be compared for the cost of emotional power.
Posted by:smritirekha - 03 Dec, 2009
5: Unbiased and Selfless Love exists only when the happiness of the other person is more important than your own.

I realized this a bit too late. The Girl I loved the most left me because i was being too possessive. I have learnt my lesson which i cannot forget in this life time. I want her to be happy where ever she is , with whomever she is.
Keep Smiling always , Like you used to :)
Posted by:Ajay - 02 Dec, 2009
6: absolutely, i will go further to say based on my experience that men can easily be fooled by women.
Posted by:Amit - 28 Nov, 2009
7:
Man wants to emotionaly depend on women as they feel there life is incomplete without women.
Gurpreet Replied to: Amit - 29 Nov, 2009
8: Women love money, else they wont go begind guys who are rich.
Men Loves woman, who loves money and indirectly they gain money and looses a lot of money later
If a man get a girl who doent love money, then that man is the richer in the worl, since he doesnt looses money jan
Posted by:jan - 28 Nov, 2009
9: Bt though i would lik to add tht with tym ,situation,5maturity ,family dependency a man grows to be emotional but earlier he is not purely lik tht kind.
Posted by:Apurva - 28 Nov, 2009
10: guys and emotional.oh really.ya i hav heard tht before too.but being straightforward i havnt met a men yet who is emotionaly viable.importantly in case of girls.he is emotional for his family bt nt until he feels it to be lik tht.nd wen he finds a girl emotinaly depending on him he is jst the most practical guy on earth for no reason.so basically ya a man can b emotinal or not to .it depends purely on his needs and choice!
Posted by:Apurva - 28 Nov, 2009
11: I m not completely agree with this result.It may happen in some regions but it must vary from cultures to cultures,according to there meeting and greeting etiquette.for example,a country like india where one women cant be like the above assumptions as they were very tied up with there family\\\'s and has very emotional towards her famely.
Posted by:Deepak Verma - 28 Nov, 2009
12: Men love women, women love money. so a man marries a woman he loves, woman marries a man, who has money. For any other need they can have alternate/intermediate solutions. :P
Posted by:peeyush - 27 Nov, 2009
13: The above research is based on Economics. The medical reason of Hormonal activity explained by Subhankar is also correct. But do not agree in terms of age barrier.
Posted by:Altius - 25 Nov, 2009
14: Although the scenario depends upon culture & economy but for a prosperous well developed society where consumerism is no more a luxury, but a necessary, this may reflect truth! It depends upon economic conditions as well as educational backgrounds too. But when compared between a male and female of same economic class and social stature women become less and less emotional up to an age barrier of 35-40 years. But after that, means when in the late thirty or early forties, women became more & more emotional specially just before their menopause due to hormonal activities...........
Posted by:subhankar sarpyl - 24 Nov, 2009
15: not really...this seems to be working only with the man who loves his gal so much...i mean when the love percentage is more in mans side which is very rare...still there are men who like to have relationship with so many gals though they have a most lovable heart waiting for them to love.men is emotional only when he gets that feel..but women will become emotional when the men turned emotional...
Posted by:sashi - 24 Nov, 2009
16: Men are emotional. Women dont care. men think more than women when it comes to emotional issues
Posted by:V V S Prasad - 24 Nov, 2009
17:
how can you say that?
pooja Replied to: V V S Prasad - 01 Dec, 2009
18:
its very true
Eliaas Emanuell Replied to: V V S Prasad - 30 Nov, 2009
19: Men are emotional. we agree 100%. But women also more emotional, who leads the life with only the spouse LOVE.
Posted by:Divya Sai Manasa - 23 Nov, 2009
20:
seke,men emotional are like cold anger&the women like rac
ket anger.
Sundar. Replied to: Divya Sai Manasa - 24 Nov, 2009
21: Do not agree with ravichandran. To understand more pls.visit website http://www.aifw.info/
Posted by:Altius - 23 Nov, 2009
22: my opinion women is sacrifices every thing for men ,and she will take and feel the responsibility about men,so hear there is no matter to tell men are more emotional than women, hear both or equal for example: sruthi matha, laya pitha
Posted by:ravichandran - 23 Nov, 2009
23:
then u don't know anything about women :)
vinod Replied to: ravichandran - 23 Nov, 2009
24:
LOL. right :)
rdx1312 Replied to: vinod - 28 Nov, 2009
25: I don't know much about women, but men's brain works heavily on techinical skills and women's on management. so they are more powerful in managing multiple things. That may be one of the reason for the outcome of this study. but everyone has their own emotional level and we can't always compare it with same gender or oppposite. it depends on the inner strength u have.

That what i feel.
Posted by:Venkat - 23 Nov, 2009
26:
this article is not about managerial or technical skills or managerial skills but it is about emotional power of male and female and I agree that man are more emotional than woman.

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tejash Replied to: Venkat - 24 Nov, 2009
27: I am completely agreed. woman hav always carry a backup for everything.
Posted by:Ashok Deshwal - 23 Nov, 2009
28: yes, right I think. Its true and 95%.
Posted by:Archna Tiwari - 23 Nov, 2009
29:
lets not quantify human losses and gains to money.. it doesn't really require research of these sorts to convince anyone abt the emotional discriminant so to speak.. men are more emotional observed in everyday walk just putting numbers to it doesnt make too much of a difference
anirban Replied to: Archna Tiwari - 23 Nov, 2009
30: very true.....
Posted by:shashi kant jayswal - 23 Nov, 2009
31: Hey i liked the last comment. Quite true. I have met a few of the many girls and i agree the article is true. Yet i keep the hunt for this perfect girl for whom money is less important then principles. I see so many girls commenting. Just count in your brain how many guys you know. so that you really have the right to judge using the remark of male chauvinism.
Posted by:suhail - 23 Nov, 2009
32:
initially, as per studies, a women's heart size is lesser than that of men which eventually makes a man culprit of overemotions...doesnt mean that women don hav a heart towards anything, however men dont use their minds while being wit women....nonethless, emotional level of a man or woman depends upon theirs ability to use their minds and hearts in appropriate required situations
Gokul Replied to: suhail - 23 Nov, 2009
33: I agree because most of the men are dont express the feelings as the way women does for example even for the small reasons or a small problem girls dont control and they start off crying where as a man dont do like that even if he is facing a bigger problems he doesnt give up to others that easily but he will be suffering inside much more than a girl who cant hide the feelings.........
Posted by:Mamathadev - 22 Nov, 2009
34:
I agree..
Ravi Replied to: Mamathadev - 23 Nov, 2009
35: Comparing human emotions with money...Oh.. come on..such a negative study..If i was the sheriff...I would banged his back bone..n put him behind bars...! Useless goon! We must never encourage these guys..! Only because of these idiots...relations n emotions are misconceptually understood by the upcoming generation...to hell with these 3rd rate lofrs..
Posted by:Sudarsan - 22 Nov, 2009
36:
i guess you are not sudaran , you are sudarsanii
emanuel Replied to: Sudarsan - 30 Nov, 2009
37: I totally disagree.Real men dont have emotions, they just dont care about anything in the world.They dont really love,they just pretend. They just marry to satisfy comply with the society.On the other hand marraige,divorce,death and life are really huge thing in womens life. So this quantification in terms of money is total nonsense.
Posted by:krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
38:
Speak for yourself...Men don't create scenes to express their feelings like most women do and yes attention to detail is not there in men but that does'nt make a man completely emotionless
vinu Replied to: krishnakanth - 23 Nov, 2009
39:
I think you are like that, thats why you are telling about yourself and about your character, All men are not like that they have emotions more than women
T.V.Sanoj Nambiar Replied to: krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
40:
This is 100% true. Most of the men always want to showoff the society. Nothing true.
Priya Replied to: krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
41:
I don't agree with this. This may be happened in few cases but this is not applicable to all the men.
New Techs Replied to: krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
42:
i m fully satisfy with this statement.

mona Replied to: krishnakanth - 22 Nov, 2009
43: I agree because those mans who living there life on right path will become like woman means they will have more emotionals and those woman who living there life on right path will become like mans.
Posted by:J.P.Singh - 22 Nov, 2009
44: Looks like women need to learn counting
& Men need to stop exaggerating emotions & financials.
Posted by:Spirits Unleashed - 22 Nov, 2009
45:
i m agree for your comments
Raj Narayan Replied to: Spirits Unleashed - 22 Nov, 2009
46: male chauvinistic approach....!

..definitely dis article must hav been written by some indian male..!
Posted by:Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
47:
And I take your comment as one of the most overused 'Defence Mechanism' of females. No offenses, though.
Kishore Replied to: Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
48:
This artice is correct.This could be consider only to those Men who feels i.e. A perfect Human Being,and its not so that men want to show their good side...
narendra Replied to: Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
49:
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ajay Replied to: Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
50:
Very nice In between you started proposal also.
Rahul mob no. 971553290754 Replied to: ajay - 22 Nov, 2009
51:
ohh. yes ofcrs ..by d indian male experianced wid typical indian women specially(Girl
naveen Replied to: Shruti - 22 Nov, 2009
52: this is quite true and a well experienced fact also. Men are less showy in comparison to women and this is where women take all the credits.But the inside story is completely different....
Posted by:Abhishek Dogra - 22 Nov, 2009
53: Do not count everything with money and especially emotions. Some emotions are silent and need not be measured.
Posted by:Shashi - 22 Nov, 2009
54: Reason for marriage may be because bride is going away from her parents with whom she spent her 25 years so it may reduce the joy.
I question the way they did their research and may be men are more linked to money. My personal thoughts
Posted by:Ankit Arora - 22 Nov, 2009
55:
Ankit

Men also leaves quite a lot of stuff because of marriage. This research had captured accurately.
Jeffy Replied to: Ankit Arora - 22 Nov, 2009
56:
as a guirl u r so agree about the trouth , so i appricioate ur thought.

but u never be the cause of the same & make some other as u .

then i will call u & say u ......

will u be my bebbo..

with a rose ,,,,,,,,,
shushil ku panigrahi Replied to: Ankit Arora - 22 Nov, 2009
57: mohanudupa....absolutely right.!

emotionas are totally subjective abd relative .!.dere are no parameters to calculate ne1's emotions...one shud use our own brain to jusdge what d persn in frnt is all about.!
Posted by:smriti - 22 Nov, 2009
58: comparing men and women are started from Vadic periods.. but its not at all fair.. comparing emotions...! its all upto them... how you guys calculate once emotion.. worthless news...
Posted by:mohanudupa - 22 Nov, 2009
59: Value given to money by man is less than the value women give to money. Thus this is not the best way to compare the emotions. But it still is the reflection of the opportunistic, and cruel nature of women. A high level debate can be made on this statistics.
Posted by:Rajesh - 22 Nov, 2009
60: Economics rules personal life, family life, religion, culture, tradition, politics, etc..............
Posted by:Altius - 22 Nov, 2009
61: The research is based on the random survey should not be right all the time.But in my opinion, man is surely more emotional then the woman.I guess comparison to evaluate the loss in terms of money is not right way to show the findings of the research.In my opinion, the final result must be concluded by some female because their mind always works on monetary aspects.

Posted by:Nilesh Vora - 21 Nov, 2009
62: This is a fact which many are unaware of and this melancholy is one of the main reasons for all the turmoil in this materialistic world where emotions have negligible value and that too in a very minimal few.
Posted by:Devesh Lath - 21 Nov, 2009
63: thats the one of the fact which people dont know
Posted by:sandip - 21 Nov, 2009
64: men are also more intelligent than women in all terms

men are great

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Posted by:dibupaulkk - 21 Nov, 2009
65: Men are more generous than any women. Woman might think that they have market forever, wherever and whenever.
Posted by:SANTOSH - 21 Nov, 2009
66: "estimated the value of happiness in terms of cash". The figures in all ways shows men are losing more in terms of qualitative and quantitative of LIFE. This proves that men are less materialistic compared to women. That is, the more and more level of materialism, the less will be emotions.
Posted by:Altius - 21 Nov, 2009
67: I think it is someshat eroneous conclusion. I believe men and women on an average are equally emotional. When we tag emotion in monetary terms then the exchange rate may vary between men and women. One has to find out whether men and women both have same opinion about money, whether the persons interview have the same level of income (men and women). As far as I know indian women, they are no less emotional than men and if you really ask me the Birth of child for men or women is so invaluable that to price tag can be put and so is marriage and so is the loss of loved ones. it is equally devastating for men and women in general.
Posted by:Prashant - 21 Nov, 2009
68:
Quantification in terms of money is really nonsense but it really is true that men are more emotional than women. You should be a Buddha or Swami Vivekananda and you will be true.
Shank Replied to: Prashant - 22 Nov, 2009
69: I think I question here is abt Y R mens more emotional than women? Its so simple. I really don't understand wat stuff R U ppl taking abt.

Here s d reason Y I feel men's R more emotional....check it
Basically the environment in which person is bought up, is wat the reason is all Abt. Girls/women/ladies...watever - They have always a restriction or more limitations , they get used to word "NO" since their childhood. Tht's wat make them strong to get adjusted to any kind of situation. But in case of boys/guys/men, they have given all kind liberty and they mental ability to accept the word "REJECT" is nt tht easy. Boys/Guys/men- pls stop blaming girls/ladies/women's for ur mistakes and get prepared mentally to accept the challenges in Life. Plz dont understand their tears- It is the one which really make them strong.

I don't knw hw many of U accept this, but its the FACT..
Posted by:Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
70:
Dear,
you are very less aware of women.women are too smart and selfish in many times.dont believe outward of women.its big logic and allmost impossible to understand them.
regards,
raju
M S raju Replied to: Nirupa - 28 Nov, 2009
71:
ya u r rite...tats the reason we guys nvr belive in cryin guls... one more thing being a Man we never shed our tears or show it out, we guys used to think tat bein stuborn without showin out our emotion is Manlly, so we ppl r stuck to tat...brought up in such culture... so culture and individual character plays vital role....
sripaul Replied to: Nirupa - 22 Nov, 2009
72:
...very philosophical...
Urooj Zaidi Replied to: Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
73:
Mr Urooj Gi.....its nt philosophy but the fact. Just see the things going around U....i'm sure U will accept it :)
Have a gr8 day
Nirupa Replied to: Urooj Zaidi - 22 Nov, 2009
74:
yes u r exactly right
Shiva Replied to: Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
75:
but society never let women to live their lives in their own manner .for them needs to be depended on man......
Gurpreet Kaur Replied to: Shiva - 29 Nov, 2009
76:
Hi Shiva ..Thnx for d support:)
Nirupa Replied to: Shiva - 22 Nov, 2009
77:
yes nirupa yo right it depends on individual....n how they are born n brought up...see ya take care........
sowmya Replied to: Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
78:
Hi Sowmya....thnx for UR support dear....
U knw wat... everyone don't understand and if they don't accept it. Hardly ppl like U and me understand it and accept it ... Have a gr8 day and week to
Nirupa Replied to: sowmya - 22 Nov, 2009
79:
Great one Nirupa.. Yahh i think ur observation is absoloutly perfect... It is a grt suggestion really... Hv a grt life...
Sandip Replied to: Nirupa - 21 Nov, 2009
80:
Hi Sandip.....thnx for Ur support.Observation is wat makes one to lead a good and better life... :)
Nirupa Replied to: Sandip - 22 Nov, 2009
81: This is the fact absolutely 100% correct. I am a professor in a B-School in dept. of management in Delhi..I can feel all this because i m a divorcee and our separation is not due to us. it was just the interference of her father..even in the court room Judge was also surprised that my wife is not saying anything against me..but her parents were destroying the beautiful house of their daughter..Thanks a lot to all Silicon India team..
Posted by:William John - 21 Nov, 2009
82:
Yes dear,
you are correct.unncessarily women relitives wants to support to their sister nor duughter with no clear idea about her. her innosense just crates interference irrelated people leads collapse of beautiful home further no chance to build back.
regards,
Raju
raju Replied to: William John - 29 Nov, 2009
83:
yes, ur right...parents to destroy often their children's life cause of selfishness and ego..but i have to say tht my parents are great..they would never do anything to make me sad..but still they too have their rules i have to follow..
Gia Replied to: William John - 21 Nov, 2009
84: I just say that Men feel more emotional than Women. Because an emotion or a feeling in a person is induced or developed on the basis of ones inherit settings of majestic qualities of heart senses such as love, kindness, sympathy and forgiveness etc.
The rates of these qualities present in human nature do vary from person to person and is not uniform in all. So far a human being has not invented an instrument to scale this feeling rate present in the fellow human beings.
A feeling or emotion developed in a person on the basis of time, conditions and environment only. And also these feelings are emotions cannot be rated on gender basis. At times something may appear as too impressive but the same may look as different in other direction. Every feeling that develops in human senses is frequently interchanging with time and conditions. It’s difficult to apply same settings of feelings to everyone as uniformly and thus decide the unit rate of ones feeling in Pounds, Dollars etc.
I really do not see any essence in this topic to discuss. It’s really meaningless.
Posted by:Vinod - 21 Nov, 2009
85: ...it means, men take things seriously...:-), if someone(men/women)is serious enough definitely its going into his/her head/heart...
after all...things vary from person to person...there is no scale which can count such things...
Posted by:Urooj Zaidi - 21 Nov, 2009
86: I am sorry for my english.. but i m telling my feelings..I think that is right.. Most of the time mans always crying but they dint show to every body .. girls thoought boys dont have heart.. but they not thinking abt boys..

girls use the boys like one solder. when they upset then always boys can help not girls.. because they can understand her feelings..

i saw the world and m notice every time .. boys understand what girls want but girls can not understand his feeling...
Posted by:hiten - 21 Nov, 2009
87:
Sorry......I personally think that men and women are equally emotional coz both are human being....as human being they also have heart....so felling are equal for men and women but also depend on person to person....But yes u r right that women can cry infornt of any1 but men are not....

I dont agree that girls are thinking men are 1 shoulder.....but its not true.......men are always showing that they are 1 man shoulder......they cant understand woman's felling......
Luna Das Replied to: hiten - 21 Nov, 2009
88:
very well said that GIRLS can never ever undrstnd BOYS feelings they just thing that v all do not have hearts to undrstand their problem..A very ongoin example i m qouting n whosoever read pls pray 4 my love to come back in my life again.................................

I have met a girl called RIDHI GAMBHIR n slowly n slowly we too fell in love with each other very deeply..i always try 2 help her in any of the problem related to any field..we were so deep in love that whole day n night just passed in talking to each other..i was really addicted to her like alcohol..but in a moment she forgot each n everything which was between us n left me alone just cos i was doin MBA n she was doin MCA..she thinks that i was unable to help her in her problems...she left me alone turning the hole world dark 4 me..these GIRLS r really like HELL..those got gud but those left more HELL..“A Broken Heart is a heart that has felt love.....”
SAMEER KHAN Replied to: hiten - 21 Nov, 2009
89:
Hi Sameer i dont know y u still pray god to her come back as she didnt loves u truely just forget her start a new life have faith in you.when she meets u next time she should feel that i missed a such a loving and caring person in her life.........


All the best for ur future.
Mamthadev Replied to: SAMEER KHAN - 23 Nov, 2009
90:
Dear Sameer, it seems it wasnt Love, she came to you just to seek friendship on terms of help. Move ahead and close this chapter of your life.

Regarding the ongoing topic, I would say, I am far more emotional than my Girl. But only thing I feel exist behind all issues is our ego itself. Men hate to ask for help when it comes to a women becoz Men pretend to be strong and all rounder but unfortunately they are not (everyone has limitations). And Women dont understand that if they make the first "Move" which might be 1% of a relationship, the Men are capable of carrying out the relationship to entire 99% which is left without complain. May be some girls think vice versa.
Planning to Marry Replied to: SAMEER KHAN - 22 Nov, 2009
91:
Dear Sameer, in what ever the case, you are not supposed to make her name public. If you really loved her, and your love is unconditional, then you shl think for her good.
Kummy Replied to: SAMEER KHAN - 21 Nov, 2009
92:
I really appreciate about ur unconditional love statement made to Sameer its really good.........
Mamathadev Replied to: Kummy - 23 Nov, 2009
93:
i disagree with this.............comment coz..
i know a girl who was so faithful to her husband...but just because she was in her parents house for 4 months as her mom was getting operated her husband started a new affair with a girl, but still acting as he was loyal to his wife,,,after she found that he had affiar and confirmed the same with his girlfriend, she left him.

She says that Guys are worthless to have one`s true love to their life time, they always want just a female next to them, they dont have emotions, feelings or conscience.....
leftalone Replied to: SAMEER KHAN - 21 Nov, 2009
94: or i must add that individuality is independent of the gender.
Posted by:rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
95: perhaps men are flirting all the time, so marriage becomes a special occasion to them, while women have always known that there would be only one guy to whom they would bestow their love upon. hence, the occasion of marriage is not anything different from their usual dimension of discipline/sincerity.
Posted by:rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
96:
Good try Rashee! Human females are the world's most non trust able creature that roams this planet. We cannot blame GOD also. He tried his best to create emotional human females. She is different from females of every other mammals. For example, a female cow (supposed to be more emotional creature) has its milking glands near its hind legs. But for a human female he (God) placed them near her heart so that her heart might open with repeated sucking. Sorry God, wrong design, does not work!
brahma Replied to: rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
97:
Nice throughts...whats is your matrimonial ID?
NVK Replied to: rashee saxena - 21 Nov, 2009
98: Hi All,
Let us not be biased. Every human being(male/female)is emotional, but only few display it. Let us not forget that this study talks about the loss of happiness in terms of money which is not the right thing to do.
I think all the materialistic men will agree with this whereas men who value relations would not agree to this.
Posted by:Chandrashekar - 21 Nov, 2009
99:
I think you did not understand what he means. Measurement has to be done in some currency and therefore he is doing it with the most common currency used by humans i.e. money.
Bijli Replied to: Chandrashekar - 21 Nov, 2009
100: i dont agree..cause i know a man who shows no kind of emotions.nothing.while he is enjoyin his life ..tht girl is suffering..still..even month later..even as she was worried after she heard tht he had an accident..he didnt reply.so i dont agree tht men are more emotional.some of them listen to their mom's and loos their heart..now i would say..man can be more cruel..they can be heartless ..but not a woman.
Posted by:Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
101:
Hi Gia,
I m not agree with you. One very good example is nw a days girls are more professional than a man. I know a person who is very close friend of mine and he is working ion very good company. His girl friend left him in lure after every thing is fianilised(Marraiage)only because she found a guy who is also working but he has very large parantel asset.

We all friend very hardly make him to recover from this siutuation. Now me n my friends completely lost faith in women comunity.

What u can say when two persons commited for 3-4 years and they r going to be married within two months and sunddenly girls left boy saying she cannot live with him.

Very strange to know when we looked into her history which cannot be described in words.
Robin Replied to: Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
102:
sorry Robin,but the same thing as u said with the boy happened in my case with the girl. both were living out of india..bbut still not same ountry.had relationship,lived together n all.noone of his friends in india, blr, knew abt tht girl.finally he had to go back caus visa thing back to blr.meanwhile his mom get to know abt their relationship and did everything to split them.they wanted to marry.now..he n his parents are lookin for a girl for him to get married.girl is still abroad.usually ppl say tht girls abroad are not like girls in india..but in this case.the guy, left her,and she is down.he is enjoyin life with his friends, cause noone knws there tht he ever had a gf as he was abroud for higherstudies. so his world is clean, but she is suffering..as i said..he didnt even reply, as the girl msged him whether he is ok or not after accident.wht u say now? tht girl is sufferin a lot..she is in an age she has to marry.she said till now to all proposals no cause he promised to make it up with his parents..as he went to blr and had tht joyfull life back, not like abroad..he left her cause his mom said n wants to marry a girl from there..the girl who should be the bride as they planned has now to watch how he is gettin married to somonelse..wht u say now
Gia Replied to: Robin - 21 Nov, 2009
103:
m not agree with Gia.. why every time mans shows his emotions... if she loke him or love him .. why she is not understand his feeling .. boys want to enjoys his life with his gf but most gf always telling .. \" dont do this. i dont like that .. \" if boys like that so they have to support but not for all thing but at least support..

\"some of them listen to their mom\'s and loos their heart\"
for this line .. if he is listening his moms so what is bad.. girls not listen her mother ..

m notice most of times... they are not thinking when they angry.. man have also heart... but that time they didnt think abt that,,,,
hiten Replied to: Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
104:
i agree with u Gia mens are too hard to understand they belive in their own interest.
Sachin Replied to: Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
105:
Hey Gia I dont know about u but my experience says that men's are more caring than womens its just a matter of chance how much u beleive in each other And my question to u, if u live with one who is caring for u for entire life until u get on board for ur life how can u leeave her (Mom) alone for someone who u just got a month or one year back... is it fare? and u cant blame someone.. if something goes wrong.
Binesh Replied to: Gia - 21 Nov, 2009
106:
Women should understand that a mother is most important person in the world for a man...anyways you will realize that when you get you child married.
NVK Replied to: Binesh - 21 Nov, 2009
107: It is true men are more emotional, it is because the men are being head and responsible - he never share much of his problem with many - the outburst is an emotional behaviour.
Otherwise women get more often, known to every one that makes no difference. But once the men does it - it is known to all.
Posted by:uppukar - 21 Nov, 2009
108: Ya realy mens are more emotional than womens.becouse mens did that for women whose they cn't did think and did for men.This my thinking and this is real truth.
Posted by:premjeet kaushik - 21 Nov, 2009
109: Yeah, its tru. Women r weaker by arms but stronger in emotions rather than men can. Women takes lots of time to flow emotions... and men gets emotional in meanwhile.
Posted by:chandan - 21 Nov, 2009
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Posted by:nikki - 21 Nov, 2009
111: what i feel is that men usually are not comfortable in letting out their feelings/emotions cause as we grow, we are told that men are stronger and should not cry. whereas women cry and shares her feelings asap, which make her feel strong after she tells it to someone. i think the results just shows the difference in upbringing of a boy and a girl.
Posted by:someone - 21 Nov, 2009
112:
yeah you r right.....
arpit Replied to: someone - 21 Nov, 2009
113: yeah it is.
Posted by:Gemu - 21 Nov, 2009
114: hn...women r emotional but nt strong dts y dey keep cryin ol time... dey jst irritate othrz by doin dis.. y r dey so weak...? so dependant on othrz.. dey xpect thngs frm othrs n den get hurt wen xpectations don fulfil.. hm.... dey rely on men.... itz sad.. women dere.... b independant...
Posted by:navpreet kaur - 21 Nov, 2009
115: I think this analysis has been made through a survey, which infact is conducted by direct questioning or analysis of behaviour. I think women fall short because of their capability of hiding emotions while men generally are strong on the outside, but when they let their feelings out, they score high.
Posted by:Saurabh Dey - 21 Nov, 2009
116: I really agree with the newsletter. Women wants everything immediately and instantly. All their emotions are instant and worthless. They believe on everything and does hate their beloved ones very easily. They never love the long term relationship, but they are very fond of making quick love and fake affection. They need to change!
Posted by:Anbu - 21 Nov, 2009
117: Perfect ...... me 1001% agree with dis artcl....rly 100 true dis is....
Posted by:Sugato Sen - 21 Nov, 2009
118: your statement is true.
Posted by:christie fox - 21 Nov, 2009
119:
I was responding to naomivice. Men and women both have emotions. Fear, anger, hurt, sadness, all are emotions and are shared by both men and women. Men do cry, men do share their feelings just like women do. In a divorce men lose more money than women do and that's the norm and for many reasons. One is because men usually get paid more than women on a job, could be because men are expected to support so they start out a marriage with more money and are able to save more during the marriage and hide what they save, and because it's more expensive for a women to live in that she has more clothes, more make-up and such than men do.
christie fox Replied to: christie fox - 21 Nov, 2009
120: Really womens are very controling of their emotions, but they will play with men's life
Posted by:raghu - 21 Nov, 2009
121:
greatly said bro..!
prem Replied to: raghu - 21 Nov, 2009
122: gosh...this is so true.. actually dis is a universal fact... women jus know hw to ruin a men\'s lfe. they are bloody practical. they very well knw unka fayda kisme hai...period.
Posted by:punit mishra - 21 Nov, 2009
123: yes i agree 100 n 10 % correct.For example allmost all poet Written by men. Psysologists, Philossopers 99% men because they r more emotionals.Womens only just showing physically by tearing.crying but they dont feel heartfully.
Posted by:Durga - 21 Nov, 2009
124:
hey durga...what ever u said is perfect..both men and women have emotions but we dont show it,doesnt means that we we dont hae emotions..but one more important thing is that womens are more stronger than men when it comes to mentally..

venkat
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venkat Replied to: Durga - 21 Nov, 2009
125: Yeah I agree to this... Women let out their emotions through tears or by sharing their feelings to others. But men hardly does this. All ladies pls accept this strange FACT :)
Posted by:Woman - 21 Nov, 2009
126: This is a stupid war someone made up between men and women. Some men are way more emotional than other men as some women are to women. Alot of it depends on upbringing and the emotions expressed in former family life. I,ve seen more and less expessed from both. Naomi Ruth
Posted by:naomivice - 21 Nov, 2009
127:
yeah .. the woman of today has evolved as emotionally strong character of society, but by crying they let the anguish ventilated which seems quite sensible too, so we men should learn to weep and no to keep ...
sandyclone Replied to: naomivice - 21 Nov, 2009
128:
I agree to this,there is no scale to measure the emotional parameter, its actually how close u r and how hard u r hit...
best wishes to all,
Anupam Sharma
Anupam Sharma Replied to: naomivice - 21 Nov, 2009
129: Dear ,
Its more than 100% true that womens are no ever emotional,simply they use to shows up their self..... and killing mens life
Posted by:sanjay - 21 Nov, 2009
130: How cruel women are?
Posted by:Rajesh - 21 Nov, 2009
131: " Losing a loved one has a much bigger effect than gaining a loved one. There's an asymmetry between life and death". True...
Posted by:Men... - 20 Nov, 2009
132: Dear Lord, please give me back the 20 seconds I wasted in reading this article.
Posted by:lowToleranceForNonsense - 20 Nov, 2009
133:
You wasted another few seconds by writing this! You ass--- got to be smart :)
Fcuk Replied to: lowToleranceForNonsense - 20 Nov, 2009
134: Its 100 percent true. Women always feel than they are more emotional, but its totally wrong.
Posted by:Tamanna - 20 Nov, 2009
135:
IM NOT AGREE WITH YOU ITS 1000% TRUE Men are more emotional than women .
AZMI Replied to: Tamanna - 21 Nov, 2009
136:
Yeah i total agree with you
Anil Replied to: Tamanna - 21 Nov, 2009
137:
I am not agree with Tamanna.in present time Women are not sensible & imotional in comparison of Men.
Raj Solanki Replied to: Tamanna - 21 Nov, 2009
138:
i do agree wid u tamanna
raj singh Replied to: Tamanna - 20 Nov, 2009
139:
YES..........Tammana aap ki baat me taassur nahi hai ...womens are not control on her emotional and her feelings......so i tell you womens are more emotional than mens.
Akka Replied to: raj singh - 21 Nov, 2009
140:
i do agree with Tamanna and Rashi.Women are more practical as comapred tom man.
Varun Sharma Replied to: raj singh - 21 Nov, 2009
141:
very true.. women are far more emotionally strong than men.
rashi Replied to: raj singh - 20 Nov, 2009
142:
i agree with girla here.... women are far better in case of controlling emotions
Payal Replied to: rashi - 21 Nov, 2009
143:
It may be some what true. But The birth of a child created a low cash amount....I wont agree with this statement
siraj Replied to: rashi - 21 Nov, 2009
144:
well thats a comparative scale..
vishal Replied to: siraj - 21 Nov, 2009
145:
I really agree with the newsletter. Women wants everything immediatly and instantly. All their emotions are instant and worthless. They beleive on everything and does hate their beloved ones very easily. They never love the long term relationship, but they are very fond of making quick love and fake affection. They need to change!
Anbu Replied to: siraj - 21 Nov, 2009
146:
27.its not agreeing abt to dis article n all...emotions are totally relative n subjective it differs from one indiviual to anoder.bt dis is also tru dan women r more smarter dan men..dey r more practical..men most f d tyms r nerds ...having least amount f social sense..!just coz f such weaknesses of men..god made women to support and help dem to accomplish deir goals..!
reality Replied to: Anbu - 21 Nov, 2009
147:
i agree with the thoughts above...its an individual who is emotional not any gender - male or female...I know few males who are really dedeicated to the females in their life and few females who are also the same.
I would say, male show their emotions only before the girl in their life, that's y we say males r more emotional...however, females are like an open book generally, they easily puke their feelings before anyone who is very close to them...so their emotions get distributed...n when such kind of survey happens...the result is before us...
Neh Replied to: reality - 21 Nov, 2009
148:
I don't know in what sense you are saying that women are smarter than men. There are simply lot of scales to measure this. You ask any male he'll say the other way around. Ask a girl and she'll most probably agree with you. However looking at my own experiences in dealing with women I do agree with the article and most of the comments made here.
rdx1312 Replied to: reality - 21 Nov, 2009
149:
what i see here there is no difference in men or women emotion , even this is not true that men are more stronger in any sense but yes whole society and religion and scripture are made and ruled by men since thousand of years so every things revolved between them in favor , the basic difference is just biological body structure nothing more than that , the core and bottom is sweet soul inside where some one is awaken and someone is fast asleep.

Ashutosh
Ashutosh Replied to: rdx1312 - 21 Nov, 2009
150:
Its really nonsense to compare a men and women when god himself has made them in such a different manner.Both holds their own special place in their own respective field.Both are complementary to each other,in some areas men are the leaders while in others women are the dominators.! There are no fix and stringent parameters or methods to manipulate anybody's emotions.If men are great philosophers then they are the most hrad hearted creatures as well..take the example of terrorists(osama bin laden,daud n all).so i dont think so that just this article is enough to judge any man or woman..god has given us a mind to use and judge of our own that who is what!
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