Female job hagglers 'less liked' at workplace
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| Friday, 08 January 2010, 21:14 Hrs
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Sydney: Here is a bit of shocking revelation for competent female workers. The next time you try negotiating your salary, just remember you may be inviting hostility at the workplace, possibly also a backlash.
"Best practice negotiation strategies which work for men frequently backfire for female employees and can damage their relationships with employers," said Carol Kulik, professor of human resource management at the University of South Australia (USA).

She said that a common recommendation to women is to get tough -- to ask more often and to ask more assertively but this recommendation backfires. Consequently, the woman who successfully negotiates favourable outcomes for herself may be perceived as competent, but she is also likely to encounter a backlash and be perceived as less likeable than a man.
"Competent women are often viewed as less friendly, helpful, sincere and trustworthy, but more hostile, selfish, devious and quarrelsome- not the perceptions you want your boss to have of you!" Kulik said.
According to the professor, a wide variety of research evidence indicates women begin their careers with a salary gap.
"One study of 500 MBA graduates showed that the median salary for female graduates was half the median salary for male graduates," she said, adding organisations also have a role in creating an environment that does not punish women who choose to negotiate. "Negotiation is a major factor in the salary gap between men and women," she said.
"The salary gap widens over the course of a career, leaving women less financially secure at retirement than men with comparable skills and experience," she said, according to a USA release.
She says women can avoid this situation by carefully framing their requests to avoid being perceived as "pushy" and by managing the negotiation process.
"Best practice negotiation strategies which work for men frequently backfire for female employees and can damage their relationships with employers," said Carol Kulik, professor of human resource management at the University of South Australia (USA).

She said that a common recommendation to women is to get tough -- to ask more often and to ask more assertively but this recommendation backfires. Consequently, the woman who successfully negotiates favourable outcomes for herself may be perceived as competent, but she is also likely to encounter a backlash and be perceived as less likeable than a man.
"Competent women are often viewed as less friendly, helpful, sincere and trustworthy, but more hostile, selfish, devious and quarrelsome- not the perceptions you want your boss to have of you!" Kulik said.
According to the professor, a wide variety of research evidence indicates women begin their careers with a salary gap.
"One study of 500 MBA graduates showed that the median salary for female graduates was half the median salary for male graduates," she said, adding organisations also have a role in creating an environment that does not punish women who choose to negotiate. "Negotiation is a major factor in the salary gap between men and women," she said.
"The salary gap widens over the course of a career, leaving women less financially secure at retirement than men with comparable skills and experience," she said, according to a USA release.
She says women can avoid this situation by carefully framing their requests to avoid being perceived as "pushy" and by managing the negotiation process.
Reader's comments (11)
1: I follow the sayings of my GERMAN KING
\"ADOLF HITLER\" that women are \"CHILD
BEARING MACHINES\". Women are dependent on
Men for everything. They live in this world
only with the help of men. Let it be her
Father, Brother or Husband. They claim that
they give birth to Men. But my question is
Does it happens without the help of a Man? I
personally deny that Men and Women are equal.
Men are always stronger than Women both
Mentally and Physically. So accept your
WEAKNESS and start worshipping Men as it was
earlier during my Grand Father\'s period.
Women are assets of Men.
Posted by: A. Shiva Kumar - 12 Jan, 2010
2: hmm, Men are buit for kill, women made for
life...this is natures choice, ...it is
proved by history and even technical
revolution anyone who dares to challenge
nature will suffer...ending up in their own
destruction....see our global warming
now......so it is better for people do what
nature wants them to do...
Posted by: vin - 09 Jan, 2010

3:WOMEN ARE FIGHTING FOR THEIR RIGHTS FOR
EDGES. LET'S START A NEW FIGHT! I AM READY.
HOPE ALL LADIES OUT THERE ARE WITH ME.. WE
HAVE PROVED THAT WE WIN, NO MATTER WHAT. LET
"SLOW N STEADY" BE OUR MANTRA.WE R LAGGING
BEHIND COZ WE HAVE STARTED LATE. BUT WE R NOT
GOING TO BE BEHIND FOREVER..
MADHURI replied to: vin
post - 09 Jan, 2010
post - 09 Jan, 2010

4: UR right actually Men feel low in front of
potential what today's ladies carry....and
yes we need to fight and change the mindset
of Men and tell them MR. we are best....
:)
Manshi replied to: MADHURI
post - 11 Jan, 2010
post - 11 Jan, 2010

5: WHEN YOU SAY "EDGES" INSTEAD OF "AGES" -
PROVES HOW INCOMPETENT YOU REALLY ARE.
HAVING SAID THAT THE FACT IS THAT EVERYONE SHOULD TRY TO HELP EACH OTHER. PEOPLE WHO DONT HELP OTHERS IN WORKPLACE WILL BE LABELLED A JERK IRRESPECTIVE OF WETHER THEY ARE MALE OR FEMALE.
SILICON INDIA IS NOTHING BUT A CHEAP TABLOID
HAVING SAID THAT THE FACT IS THAT EVERYONE SHOULD TRY TO HELP EACH OTHER. PEOPLE WHO DONT HELP OTHERS IN WORKPLACE WILL BE LABELLED A JERK IRRESPECTIVE OF WETHER THEY ARE MALE OR FEMALE.
SILICON INDIA IS NOTHING BUT A CHEAP TABLOID
Subhash Bose replied to: MADHURI
post - 09 Jan, 2010
post - 09 Jan, 2010

6: Mr.X i guess ur men baised can't help...pl
carryon...we are the best...Nature has new
role for us and we will do it...we demand
positions ......
Manshi replied to: Subhash Bose
post - 11 Jan, 2010
post - 11 Jan, 2010

7: Just relax ppl,i dnt wan2 offend nyone out
here but,Madhuri,do you knw how one develops
strong and huge muscled .its when you pick up
weights(gym)?Thats because your body follows
Darwins theory,adoptation to the
enviroment,it strengthns to keep up with the
work it has to do everyday.Now gess why men
are more Stronger than women.(Please dont
give me the brain shit,,,When human
civilisation began,,,u needed physical
strength to survive and develop the brain
gizmos you have today,,,,its just like geting
educated on yours fathers money and going for
a good job and critisizing your dad and
laughing at him cause he earnd lesser than
you)Think about it.
Anup replied to: MADHURI
post - 09 Jan, 2010
post - 09 Jan, 2010

8: Comments of Mr.vin,subhas and anup show that
they have no respect for woman( this includes
their mother,sister,wife and daugther).
vsj replied to: Anup
post - 09 Jan, 2010
post - 09 Jan, 2010

9: Interesting view points by Anup &
Subhash. I wonder why they even wasted their
'precious' time reading this article at all
and then reply to it. India & the world
in general is in the transition period where
women are storming more and more of the
so-called male bastions and men are unable to
stomach that. They are hopelessly confused.
They want a strong minded, independent
thinking, well-placed (at workplace) &
well-salaried women to show-off as their
partner (read as wife/ girlfriend, whatever),
but at the same time want their women to be
submissive, depend on their men to make
decisions for them, and be a slave at home
without using her brains. The men forget that
if women have reached a certain position at
their workplace, it's because of their
brains, grit & determination. Unless men
change their attitude, they are the ones who
is going to suffer in the long run. And the
comments made by Anup & Subhash very
clearly indicates that they have zero respect
for women and are typical MCPs. God save
their womenfolk. It's high time men woke-up
and face realities of life than making fools
of themselves.
Prathima replied to: vsj
post - 09 Jan, 2010
post - 09 Jan, 2010

10:Dear all Women, I would say , inlcuding
myself we have wasted time in reading this
and responding to it because men will never
come out of their co-coon where they are in
hallucination of being stronger physically .
They cannot even immagine how strong a women
is mentally. What is the use of a phsyically
strong body when they can't even respect a
women who has given birth to the same strong
body.
Of course it is very rightly said , we should not disturb the nature and the fact is as a mother can give a new life and so all women will definitely oneday rise in power above all men. Hence men watch out..because when you blame women, you blame them becuase you have lived in present not in the past or future. You have never seen your future ..I can be anything..just learn to repect women atleast your own mother..
Of course it is very rightly said , we should not disturb the nature and the fact is as a mother can give a new life and so all women will definitely oneday rise in power above all men. Hence men watch out..because when you blame women, you blame them becuase you have lived in present not in the past or future. You have never seen your future ..I can be anything..just learn to repect women atleast your own mother..
gloria replied to: Prathima
post - 10 Jan, 2010
post - 10 Jan, 2010

11: Miss gloria I totally agree with you..its
complex what they are facing these days make
them talk all shit...on dynamic women who
really carries dream to reach higher and
dares to dream and acheive..it
Amen..
Amen..
Manshi replied to: gloria
post - 11 Jan, 2010
post - 11 Jan, 2010
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